After our last meeting with our rabbi, we started thinking about vows (ok, I'd already been thinking about vows since cubes suggested we write our own).
I spend a lot of time on a train. When I'm on a train without a book, which happens more frequently than one would assume, I spend a lot of time thinking.
I spend a lot of time commuting. When I'm stuck in stopped traffic, which happens a lot, I think about what I'm thankful for. I'm very thankful that cubes is in my life. I spend a lot of time thinking about him.
So while we're keeping our vows secret from each other, I thought I'd share why I'm marrying him in less than three and a half months. I've been collecting these reasons via Twitter and LiveJournal since the Fall when our friend Ed started a twitter meme after he got engaged - #reasonswhyimmarryingher. Note that I modified it slightly for my use #reasonswhyimmarryinghim. (I initially mistyped the hashtag and created an inadvertently funny tag that J caught #reasonswhyimmarringhim.)
- I've never felt like he wanted me to be anyone other than me.
- With him, I can be "me."
- He didn't try to teach me how to play pool.
- He didn't mind that we never won when we played pool together as a team.
- He walked me to my car even though it was just across the street from the pool hall.
- He picks me up at BART and walks with me when I'm scared (and when I'm not).
- He's able to roll with it when plans change unexpectedly.
- Even when there's no harm in telling a white lie, he doesn't.
- He didn't try to take me back to his place after our first dinner date.
- He kissed me back.
- He knows how to give "long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days."
- He asked me to be his girlfriend.
- He doesn't mind that I'm broken.
- He reads to me.
- He thanks me for the little things.
- He checks to make sure food is dairy-free.
- He reminds me about dairy toppings if I forget when I order.
- He drove all over Sonoma County on our supposed-to-be-relaxing Holiday getaway to find me food.
- He bought me a replacement cat necklace when I misplaced the first.
- He's grateful I'm in his life.
- He really wanted me to take a photo of him putting the save the dates in the mailbox.
- He found the song for our first dance.
- He doesn't laugh at me when I tear up at proposals on TV or in the movies.
- Even though he's not a morning person, he goes with (and or drives) me to Palo Alto to get my hair done and never complains.
- Even though he's not a morning person, he makes me coffee and breakfast when I need it.
- He holds me tight to warm me up when I get cold.
- He can have a good time when I'm not around, but he has a better time when I am around.
- He watches "Drama Flakes" with me even though most of the shows have jumped the shark.
- Even though he's superexcited about Szyzygryd, he offered to camp elsewhere at Burning Man if I couldn't camp with them.
- He's never made me feel guilty for being selfish.
- He waves to me every morning when he gets to work.
- He waves to me and blows me a kiss every evening before he leaves work.
- He says goodnight each evening before we go to bed.
- When I get stressed, it stresses him, but he doesn't show it. He just hugs me until it's ok.
- He doesn't think the idea of $100+ underwear is silly.
- He takes care of me when I'm hungover (although he tells his mom about how hungover I was).
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